Points women should remember
It is often considered that women face more difficulty when it comes to dating than men; however, the truth is quite the opposite. It is men who generally face a difficult time while dating. There are a number of reasons why men find it more challenging. One of the main reasons is that, in today’s world, the dating scenario has changed completely. It has become one-sided, the rules of dating have tilted towards women.
Here we list out the reasons why dating has become difficult for men
Expectations: Women nowadays expect men to be smart, brave, charming, sensitive and good looking, those who fail in any of these areas are usually the ones who are single. Men on the other hand usually fail to meet the expectations which have been forced upon them.
Contradictory Societal Norms: Women really need to get their priorities straighten out. If a man is chivalrous, then he is also a chauvinist and if he is not chivalrous then he is mannerless. Women always want their partners to be ‘the perfect gentlemen’ without being chauvinists. How is that even possible?
Chivalry: Over the years, the feminism wave has almost swept aside chivalry. Men are actually confused whether pulling out a chair for their partner is being chivalrous or is it questioning their independence? What compounds this dilemma further is the fact that women fail to tell their men what they are actually feeling.
Stereotype: Women, when they look at the man for the first time, in their mind have already classified them into marriage material, mama’s boy or too wild to be controlled. This is the worst possible thing that can be done to a man. It is just not these three categories that men belong to. There are other personalities that men have that are not stereotypical, but the problem is that women fail to notice.
Understanding: Most of the times, it is the women who say that men do not understand them or their feelings. But the fact is that it is the men who have been taken for granted and no one really tries to understand them. Men also like to talk freely without being judged as ‘not-manly enough’.
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Karen
April 30, 2015 at 2:28 pm
Best advice ever!!!! I’m going to print this out!!! Also, how can you tell the people that are the type that “Hit it and quit it? Wham bam thank you ma’am?” I know this guy, Dr. Mark Bezzek, that is going around on many dating sites getting girls and telling them how horrible his wife was to him, and how utterly lonely he is, only for the women to find out he’s serial dating a ton of women? He does and says anything to get them in bed, and then WHAM, disappears and moves on to his next victim. It’s sad. There should be a dating site to warn us of these men. The only reason why I didn’t fall for it, is because I knew two of the girls he was doing this to, and was warned. Otherwise, I’d be another victim. So sad.